Stone Age Dildo found in Sweden

Its kind of comforting to think that several generations of grandmothers ahead of me also enjoyed that life giving activity that seems to have found its way into the realms of taboo.

I love sex. I cannot believe that any of the generations of women before me did'nt either. And to suggest that they just lay back and thought of queen and country. It's just what we needed to know; that our great great great grand grandmothers several times squared enjoyed sex and in fact enjoyed non reproductive sex.

Now for the prudes that claim that victorian English women were staid and frigid there are some publications that suggest otherwise that also may make appropriate reading.

But really the stone age dildo really takes the cake, doesnt it?

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The journey to lesbian self discovery.

The mature self discovered lesbian is becoming more accepted and commonplace. Like many women that acknowledge their homosexuality in later life, I more than likely fit the mould. As a younger woman I wanted to be accepted, I wanted to have children and I did not want to draw attention to myself.

Acceptance is not as preceptive thing as many may imagine. As an orthodox Jewess, fitting into a community inconspicuously as a lesbian, just was not going to happen. So I fitted in as  Jewish wife and mother. I had children, I had a home and a husband. But my sex life was appalling and I didnt relate to either of my husbands as a close friend, confidante, but rather as a neccessary social appendage. This kept everyone happy, except me.

When I reached forty I realised that not only was I even socially incompatible with my husband, but I was emotionally and sexually frustrated. I had done so many other things in an attempt to compensate that I hadnt even realised what I was compensating for. One morning I was sitting in a coffee bar really admiring this subtley beautiful woman and it dawned on me that I would so have liked to get to know her better, with a view to ending up in bed.

All my high school crushes were on women and I loved my female friends very deeply. Throughout my adult life my sexual fantasies always involved women so deep down I really knew. I was even mistaken for a dyke several times, had propositions and had work colleagues that turned out to be surprised when they discovered that I was married.

FInally having met the right girl, at 40 I discovered that my life started to pan out in the way I had always imagined. We spend money on the same things, have similar intersts, a similar taste in books and music and yet are sufficiently different not to lose our own identity and sense of self.

I work hard so that I can grow old enjoying my life with the person that has become the pivotal axis of my life. My children love us both and know that we both parent them just as well as two heterosexual parents would.

I am so grateful for the fact that I live in a first world country, where my sexuality is not a crime and that I can in fact be myself and contribute within that comfort to the society in which I live.

This blog will cover everything that touches my life. Some topics will be directly lesbian related and others will jsut have to do with topics that touch everyone gay or otherwise.

Suggestions for discussion are most welcome.

Handy picnic gadgets

The one and only thing that I ever felt envious about when it came to men was that their anatomy is arranged so that an urgent need to pee can be relieved by a discreet visit behind a tree or similar. The fact that us girls have to find somewhere where the removal of all our lower clothes is not noticed followed by showering our legs and tucked away underwear with pee just makes the world seem so unfair.

I recall referring to my brothers anatomy as his his handy picnic gadget. He could just whip it out and hey presto, he was sorted in seconds. I on the other hand still have a legendary reputation for getting caught short.

Well imagine my joy when I discovered the she wee. Well the proof in the pudding as they say...... This little gadget is supposed to take all though desperate wee moments away. I am just waiting for mine to arrive in the mail, test it out and in the meantime, I'll let you gals know whether its worth the spend.

Penis Envy - No?

My SO and I love experimenting in bed and fortunately we're both adventurous and have similar sexual tastes. There is one thing that continues to mystify us. We're girls yeah, we like to have sex. But..... neither of us has a cock. If I wanted cock I'd look for a bloke, but I dont want a bloke and I really dont want a vein filled throbbing cock on my partner while we get down to business. So what's the issue?

The issue is that we like to play with sex toys. WE like to penetrate each other and every now and then its nice to use something other than our fingers. Now we have a nice little pink dildo that curves slightly and tapers in width along its length, but the really good thing about this bringer of pleasure is that it looks nothing like the male member.

Neither of us like the idea of a strap on, as neither of us identify as male or would like to have male anatomy. Yet from time to time it would be nice to make love face to face in each others arms. The strapless dildo is the perfect solution, except...... they're all shaped like cocks! Is there no dildo designer out there with a little more imagination?

I purchased the feeldoe slim and whoaa was I surprised when I opened it up. If this thing is slim then the Feeldoe Stout will be terrifying! It has a sort of penis looking tip, but I have to say the fact that the vibrator insert is made to look like a scrotum, just took away all my excitement.

I am not a penis envious dyke, I just want a toy that will enable me to penetrate my chick without it looking like I'm a girl that wants a cock.

That said there are some really great clit stimulators and I trawl the internet from time to time to find something new to surprise my beloved with, but its the dildo department I'm going to start looking at and reviewing and if any of you find something spectacular please let me know.